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NO ARGUMUENT

Due to the fact that memories are always purely subjective and therefore fallible to your own Ego's shortcomings and complexes, to make use of them and involve them in a personal argument is de-constructive and moreover utterly pointless. The best achievable result hereby is, that both parties concede to their personal short-comings, coming to the agreement that neither of them is right but simply different from the other.
In situations where there is a personal issue to be resolved between two individuals it is therefore necessary to stay and deal with the facts at hand and not to fall into the trap of bringing in subjective memories of the past or personal expectations of any kind. Otherwise you are bound to bet lost in fight in which the two Egos involved are simultaneously trying to prove the other one wrong/bad/mistaken etc.
The ever-present here-now there are no arguments, no problems. There exist only differences in being and consciousness, which at times require compromises made in mutual respect and understanding of the other one's differences from your own.

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