All adjectives have a personal, subjective connotation and are generally being used judgementally. Moreover, their individual usage is throwing a reaveling light upon your personal attitude towards life in general - a fact which few people are aware of.
While you are still living life unconsciously caught in your Egos perspective, of course, your application of adjectives is limited and conditioned by your personal reality and thus measured by purely subjective and "general" values. Because by existing wholly identified with your Ego, you are unaware of the fact that reality is a purely subjective experience and therefore cannot be measured and evaluated by your own and "general" standard values alone.
Notwithstanding, adjectives are a valuable part of the language - probably exactly because they are leaving so much room open for personal speculation and imagination.
However, especially in interpersonal relation-ships it is conducive to a common understanding if adjectives are being used in the awareness of the other's differentness and not to judge others exclusively in the light of ones personal reality.
Here is a classical example:
Personal reality is an expression of your individual level of consciousness, which in turn is responsible for your own frequency of vibration. Therefore, someone with a high vibration of consciousness is naturally thinking faster, acts and reacts more quickly than someone of a lower personal frequency of consciousness vibration. So it often happens that people are calling each other "impatient". Whereas the swift (re-)actions not necessarily need to be symptoms of impatience but may just as well be caused by quick thought movements. Because true impatience is born out of an inner agitation, which is more of a sign of personal disharmony and has nothing whatsoever in common with fast thinking.
So the next time you are categorizing someone as impatient, try to be aware of yourself and to recognize whether you are using this adjective because your vis-Ã -vis is really acting/reacting/speaking/thinking from a feeling of inner discontentment or if it the disbalance is rather on your own side and you are feeling overtaxed by the other one's swiftness of action/reaction/speech/thought.
While you are still living life unconsciously caught in your Egos perspective, of course, your application of adjectives is limited and conditioned by your personal reality and thus measured by purely subjective and "general" values. Because by existing wholly identified with your Ego, you are unaware of the fact that reality is a purely subjective experience and therefore cannot be measured and evaluated by your own and "general" standard values alone.
Notwithstanding, adjectives are a valuable part of the language - probably exactly because they are leaving so much room open for personal speculation and imagination.
However, especially in interpersonal relation-ships it is conducive to a common understanding if adjectives are being used in the awareness of the other's differentness and not to judge others exclusively in the light of ones personal reality.
Here is a classical example:
Personal reality is an expression of your individual level of consciousness, which in turn is responsible for your own frequency of vibration. Therefore, someone with a high vibration of consciousness is naturally thinking faster, acts and reacts more quickly than someone of a lower personal frequency of consciousness vibration. So it often happens that people are calling each other "impatient". Whereas the swift (re-)actions not necessarily need to be symptoms of impatience but may just as well be caused by quick thought movements. Because true impatience is born out of an inner agitation, which is more of a sign of personal disharmony and has nothing whatsoever in common with fast thinking.
So the next time you are categorizing someone as impatient, try to be aware of yourself and to recognize whether you are using this adjective because your vis-Ã -vis is really acting/reacting/speaking/thinking from a feeling of inner discontentment or if it the disbalance is rather on your own side and you are feeling overtaxed by the other one's swiftness of action/reaction/speech/thought.
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