In the actual reality of life things either ARE or they ARE NOT. Might, could, should, would etc DO NOT exist.
Either you intend to do something, or you do not. Either you know/can/believe a thing, or you do not. To be thinking and speaking in possibilities, which very often represent impossibilities, of should(have), would(have), might(have), could(have) is diminishing your creative power of action.
If you wish to have more positive power to create your personal existence stop using this category of verbs both in your thinking and your speaking. This will render your mind and your actions a lot more transparent and your personal will more potent and decisive.
Now you might(here we are again) be arguing that in society it is "normal" to be using such a mode of speaking and to change your modality of speech might(here it is again) turn you into an outsider. Also in many situations it is grammatically wrong to use the verbs in the present tense instead of making them seem a (im)possibility only. Or you might say, that if you are only sticking to the things you already know and can do, you are robbing yourself of the chances that you might come to know or be able to do more. To the contrary: the better you are aware of your current personal state of abilities/knowledge/possibilities the better you are able to know what more you can acquire for yourself. Whereas to be thinking in terms of If I could/would/should etc is muddling up your view of yourself and your reality.
Either you intend to do something, or you do not. Either you know/can/believe a thing, or you do not. To be thinking and speaking in possibilities, which very often represent impossibilities, of should(have), would(have), might(have), could(have) is diminishing your creative power of action.
If you wish to have more positive power to create your personal existence stop using this category of verbs both in your thinking and your speaking. This will render your mind and your actions a lot more transparent and your personal will more potent and decisive.
Now you might(here we are again) be arguing that in society it is "normal" to be using such a mode of speaking and to change your modality of speech might(here it is again) turn you into an outsider. Also in many situations it is grammatically wrong to use the verbs in the present tense instead of making them seem a (im)possibility only. Or you might say, that if you are only sticking to the things you already know and can do, you are robbing yourself of the chances that you might come to know or be able to do more. To the contrary: the better you are aware of your current personal state of abilities/knowledge/possibilities the better you are able to know what more you can acquire for yourself. Whereas to be thinking in terms of If I could/would/should etc is muddling up your view of yourself and your reality.
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