In the world of matter it is a plain and universally acknowledged fact, that you cannot pass something on to another which you do not own yourself. This law also applies to all the other levels of existence- because "as above, so below".
Therefore it should be logically clear, that you cannot "make someone else happy", unless whatever it is that you are doing in order to achieve this, is rendering you happy at the same time. Or even better- you are doing it because you are so happy you need to share it.
The reason why people keep on forgetting how the law of life really works and thus repeatedly fall into the same trap of delusion and subsequent frustration, is their Ego's (sub-)conscious desire to be loved. The Ego believes that if it is giving happiness to another person it shall be loved in return. But of course, life does not work this way. On the contrary, if you give out of a personal deficiency, you will feel even more dissatisfied and empty afterwards- even though you might actually be receiving something in return.
Therefore it should be logically clear, that you cannot "make someone else happy", unless whatever it is that you are doing in order to achieve this, is rendering you happy at the same time. Or even better- you are doing it because you are so happy you need to share it.
The reason why people keep on forgetting how the law of life really works and thus repeatedly fall into the same trap of delusion and subsequent frustration, is their Ego's (sub-)conscious desire to be loved. The Ego believes that if it is giving happiness to another person it shall be loved in return. But of course, life does not work this way. On the contrary, if you give out of a personal deficiency, you will feel even more dissatisfied and empty afterwards- even though you might actually be receiving something in return.
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