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THOUGHTS ON RELATION-SHIPS

In order to keep a relationship alive, it is necessary, to regard your-self and the other as what you truly are and to never take the others presence for granted. No matter who you are or he/she is, everyone is a unique, precious and loveable being in essence, worthy of respect and love. Of course, it goes without mentioning, that in any successful and harmonious realtion-ship, this attitude must by reciprocal.
You may not always like or comprehend each other's personality traits, but this should not keep you from maintaning a mutual regard for the other in an honest attempt to understand a character different from yours.
Never tell your-self, you know your-self, or the other. Never believe you know what you or he/she is going to say/do next- because you do not really. Life is ever-changing and thus mostly unpredictable, taken as what it truly is and not as what your pre-biased mind is thinking it should be. Also, not expecting anything in particular opens the field for possible reactions.
Boredom has not got a chance to kreep into a relation-ship if you remain receptive to the tides of change and always keep your Mind, heart and senses open towards the wonderous beings you both are and the miracle of life that is happening trhough and around you.

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