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IS IT TRUE?

The term "true" can be understood in the sense that it is descriptive of a state which is both existing unconditionally and in the here-now.
True love is existing beyond dualism hence it is devoid of symptoms of its dark side which are usually felt by lovers at some stage or another in the course of their loving someone.
Therefore one way of finding out if your love for someone is of the true kind and not an illusion created by your Ego-mind is to ask yourself the following questions:
"Does my loving make me feel happy here-now, does it increase my life-force, does it enhance my understanding regarding other people in general and do I feel like being kind to the whole world?" "Can I remain happy even if I may never see my beloved one again?" "Will I continue loving no matter what the other one does or what may happen to me in life?"
If your answers are "yes" to all of them you are truly loving. If on the other hand you are hesitating it is a sign that you are still living a kind of love which is conditional and as such prone to turn sour or heart-breaking one day.
True love, although it might be instigated by meeting another person really is impersonal.

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