Be simply yourself. Just accept, who you are and how your are feeling and love yourself in all that you are experiencing. There is nothing to loose when you let go of your aspirtaions and efforts to be something or someone you are not. You only win. You win your true self in love.
Striving for worldly success becomes irrelevant , when you discover how much more important and fulfilling it is to enjoy expressing, living and sharing your self in its uniqueness.