There appear to be a great number of reasons why people are communicating with each other whereas in fact there are basically only two. The one is to indulge in your Ego and to promote your personal motives. The other one is to the end of achieving a mutual understanding (of each others personalities). This can be either through trying to understand your vis-a-vis better or to explain yourself so that the other may understand you better. Whether you are able to consciously cultivate the second motive in your communications with other depends both upon your personal state of awareness and detachment from your Ego and your attitude towards you vis-a-vis. Because if your verbal intercourse is accompanied by disinterested love for the other you are striving for an understanding of the other's nature - even though only unconsciously so. If you are still unconscious in your communications you are likely to misconstrue the things which your opposite is telling you in order so that you might better see and comprehend their actual personal reality - instead of the one which you like to believe of them.
The Ego is unconsciously aware that love has the power to bestow immortality. And because its greatest fear is to die, it is instinctively seeking after love. However, for as long as the Ego is clinging to the reasons for why it is believing itself to be loved, death remains imminently close and fear remains the dark shadow of the love it is experiencing. Only when the reason for feeling loved is an all-encompassing, unconditional love that is being felt inside your own self, does love make you immortal. Of course, your Ego is still going to die its timely death but because you have released your fears death changes from a threat into a promise.
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