If you are quick to judge others in their way of being and behaving
it is a sign that you are allowing yourself to be dominated by your Ego.
If, on the other hand, you are quick to show neutral acceptance towards
others, their way of being and behaving, without necessarily always
understanding their personal motives for the way they are acting, shows
that you are living directed by the wisdom of you heart.To be
understanding towards others and your own self does not require of you
to mentally and emotionally always know and understand the personal
issue or situation in question. You only have to accept and acknowledge
that which is in an attitude of non-judgemental and unconditional love.
In this manner you are coming closest to a real understanding. Whereas
to judge another, your self or a situation in the light of your Ego's
reality is to bar off the channel by which the realization of the actual
truth might dawn to you.
There is a kind of love which unifies and unites and one that renders us poignantly - at times even painfully - aware of boundaries, limitations and our separateness. The mastership of true loving is to attain the awareness of the first and to henceforth exist in this state even whilst passing through personal experiences of the love that separates.
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