FREE LOVE

If you truly love all your problems and personal difficulties disappear because all so-called problems arise from the belief in separateness. Love is a uniting force and naturally and effortlessly simplifies your personal existence. Thus to truly love makes you blissfully aware of the all-encompassing unity of all forms of life and makes you feel entirely at one with it. If, on the other hand, your love should render your life more complicated it is not love but misplaced desire caused by unresolved feelings. Therefore any desire, besides the craving after union with God, is invariably connected to your past and hints at personal issues to be resolved within the self.

Even in cases where your desire is projected onto another person, making you believe that you are unable to resolve it on your own and that the other person is actually responsible for the way you are feeling. Although the present desire might indeed be caused by a shared past incarnation, which has served to intertwine the destinies of your souls, it is still your own unresolved feelings, which are causing your instinctual reactions. Reaction is only where there is a personal attachment of some sort. And, of course, no one but yourself can provoke any changes in the way your feelings are behaving, i.e., what you attach yourself to. The only way to rid yourself of a hindering/an unwanted desire, is to resist the temptation to fulfil it and instead to enlighten it with your conscious awareness until it loses its power over you. Whereas giving in to emotional or physical lusts and to indulge in them only serves to ad to the power they are exerting over you. Even though, by giving in to certain desires they appear to be satisfied and gone afterwards. But this is misleading for whatever you are paying attention to gains more force because your personal attachment is being strengthened by it.